Hi Graham
Copper sheet is your friend here. It is soft enough to compress correctly with a light buttering with Exhaust paste. Even better you can cut it with a Tank cutter/conventional drill with a light Dremel clean up. My Montecarlo exhaust had copper gasket joints made by the exhaust fabricator.
Enjoy.
Eric
Thanks Eric. When Googling 'exhaust gasket material' copper came up a lot and as you say is soft enough to deform as required. I might also have a word with the engineering firm who did the flange conversion and see if there is anyone local who could fab up a gasket.
Graham